Connecting the Dots

Entries from October 2007

Quetzaltenango- quet the mouthful!

October 31, 2007 · Leave a Comment

Author’s (that’s me) Note: In the first week or so of blog entries, I will be trying to give more simple details in order to provide you, the reader, a better feel for Guatemala and my surroundings. After that, I will probably post more funny stories, observations, and deep thoughts.

I woke up around 6am in order to catch my bus for Xela. I took the first class bus which cost about $7.50 one way. The ride took about five hours even though I believe Guatemala City and Xela are only about 120 miles apart. When I was looking at the map at home in the States, I failed to comprehend how it could take so long to go between two places that were so close. Maybe this is because I grew up in the flattest state in the US, or maybe because I am used to highways where 70mph is the normal speed limit. Now I know how it can take so long. The entire bus ride curves through the mountains on a two lane road and I believe the max speed limit is about 40mph. Little trucks holding passengers, livestock, and other materials passed our bus like it was nothing. There was also a lot of construction in order to make the road four lanes in some places, which created pockets of road that only had one lane. This means that we probably stood at a standstill for 30 minutes of the ride. We also took a 30 minute rest stop about two hours into the journey where 25 minutes of the 30 were spent doing absolutely nothing. Seriously, we stopped at this roadside stand and some people got food, but more or less the last 20 minutes were spent just sitting around. It amazes me how little significance is placed on time in other countries and I believe Guatemala will prove to be the same.

Anyways the scenery on the ride was absolutely gorgeous. Rolling hills, green everywhere, volcanoes in the distance, little villages scattered along the way, and clean mountain air. I tried to take some pictures from the bus, but justice cannot be done to how beautiful everything was. Finally, we arrived in Quetzaltenango, (remember this is the same as Xela for you slow learners) and I took a taxi directly to Pop Wuj, my number one choice for a language school. Pop Wuj advertises as a teacher’s cooperative where all the profits go to community service projects so I thought that was cool. Only time will tell…. I arrived at the door of the modest, old building, rang the bell, and waited, and waited. Five minutes later someone finally answered the door and ten minutes after that, I was signed up and my “family” came to pick me up. I took a quick ride to the house and then went directly back to the school for my first Spanish lesson. I guess some things do move quickly here!

First impressions of my family and house: The family consists of Francisco and Elby, married, seem to be in their 50s or 60s and very sweet people. When I asked if they speak English, they said no….should be fun. At first, I have no idea if they have children or not, or if there are even others living in the house. Later, I figure out that they do have kids, one of which lives in Ft. Lauderdale. The house is modest but nice. My room is about 9 by 9…not too bad at all and I have close to a full size bed. Almost immediately, I learn that Francisco and Elby are evangelical Christians. There are pictures and decorations of Jesus everywhere around the house and they tell me that they will not be celebrating tomorrow’s holiday, The Day of the Dead. They ask me if I will celebrate the holiday and I tell them that I will not because I am Jewish. Immediately, I regretted that decision. Not that they seemed to care too much, but I realized I had divulged too much information right off the bat. So I will not be telling others I am Jewish for now. Being Jewish always provides for an interesting dynamic while abroad, as it is impossible to know when it is okay to talk about it…more on this another day.

At dinner comes my first real surprise. I return from my first Spanish lesson at the school (5 minute walk) around 7pm and go to the table to find another guy sitting there. Eventually, after a very confusing conversation in Spanish, I learn that he lives here as well. His name is Fernando, he is 24, and goes to school in Xela but lives in another village a couple hours away. About 30 minutes later, a couple of other guys come to the table, Jaime and Alberto. Both of them live here as well! Jaime, a Guatemalan, is also an engineering student in Xela and Alberto, Mexican and 29 years old, works in the city. I remain extremely confused because I do not see any other rooms in the house so I am wondering the entire time where they are living. After we all talked for a bit, gave the normal courtesies, I asked them where they rooms were. So they took me out a door, which I thought was the back of the house, to an upstairs section consisting of two rooms. Both rooms are about the same size as mine but are being used as doubles. I also am told that they can get a free Wifi signal from the room which will definitely come in handy.

In the evening, Fernando, Alberto, and I went out to the center of the city for Halloween. Around central park, there were hundreds of little kids dressed in costume, walking around with their parents, and asking for candy. Many of the bars were decorated and advertising for Halloween parties. Everything seemed pretty similar to Halloween in the States minus the slutty costumes. We then went to a bar called Kokoloco (good name) for a drink. Nothing eventful happened…I kinda just sat there as it was loud and I do not know much Spanish. I watched some people salsa dance, drank my beer, and wondered what I was doing here. Have I mentioned yet that none of the other students living in my house speak English either? Well, they don’t. Actually I think that they may be able to speak/understand a little bit but just refuse to. Anyways, it will be great practice for me and I am looking forward to speaking with them more as I learn more words.

Categories: Uncategorized

Guatemala City and the Bianchis

October 31, 2007 · 1 Comment

 To my utter delight, I arrived safely in Guatemala City. The flight was only two and a half hours and went by quickly as most of my time was spent coloring pictures of Big Bird with the two year old named Julio sitting next to me. Julio was making his first trip to Guatemala to visit his cousins with his native mother. I should have taken a picture of him…he was adorable. It also reminded me that I want to live with a family with kids as I feel like my Spanish is more on their level…maybe around a 4 year old right now. Leaving the Guatemala airport is quite an experience. After receiving hardly a glance from the customs officer and walking out of the airport without anyone checking my bag, I entered what could only be described as a Guatemalan red carpet. As I left the sliding glass doors, there were literally hundreds of people on both sides of a short metal rail armed with signs, presents, and anxious faces searching for their returning family members. As they looked at me, I tried to stay calm while looking back into the crowd, eyes going back and forth, looking for my friend Lorena. She did not turn up on the first pass through the “red carpet” area so I waited patiently away from the crowd and looked around for her. Then I joined the masses on the outside of the rail and slowly walked and looked around, trying to not look lost, but starting to go over in my head what I would do next if Lorena was not there. As I contemplated the possible scenarios, I finally saw Lorena on the other side of the street away from the crowd. Victory! (provided by Johnny Drama).

Lorena and I headed back to her house. Her house is awesome…I love it….and her family is also great. You have no idea how amazing it is to be able to stay here the first couple of nights while I orient to a Spanish world. My first Guatemalan meal was hamburgers and last night Lorena and I went to hear her cousin play guitar at a bar where they were also playing the Monday Night Football game on the tv. So maybe Guatemala is not so different from the US after all?!? Well…I am going to guess that this is not entirely true but the similarities are more vast when it comes to Lorena’s family versus the average Guatemalan. Her family is part of the Ladino community which are of European descent and not indigenous to the country. About 60 percent of the population is indigenous with the rest being Ladino, Black, or other ethnicities like Jewish. So her family has traveled a bit and the lifestyle is similar to mine back in the States. Nice house, good education, speaks English, etc.

Today, October 30, I slept until ten, and then drove around the city with Lorena’s mother Lia and stopped and looked at a few sites. Around 1:30 we were back home and settled in for a nice almuerzo (lunch). Lunch is the biggest meal of the day here just as it was in Mexico. I ate lunch with the entire Bianchi family, Lia, Gerardo (papa), Juan Miguel (24 yr old brother), and Fernando (18 yr old brother); rounding out the family are Sherlock and Sharon, two cute cocker spaniels. Here is a photo of The Bianchi FamilyLunch was amazing! It consisted of a sort of stew with chicken, potatoes, carrots, green beans, and an Indian-like sweet and sour sauce, corn on the cob, rice, and tortillas con queso. To top it off I had ice cream and plantains for desert! Yummy! I enjoyed the meal but I know I cannot get used to this sort of cooking as I am sure that my homestay will not be providing with me the same quality or quantity of food.

Later on in the day I went to buy a cell phone with Lorena, and it was a success. She did all the negotiating, I got a cell phone, and she got a free Tigo (name of cellular company) hat. I have a prepaid cell that I am really not sure how it works but I do know that it is cheaper to call the US than it is to call Guatemala…..very good for me. I did forget my Spanish verbs book at the store so I guess I will have to learn the language minus the verbs!

Tonight was just a chill night. Pizza for dinner, played on the computer, chatted with the family, etc. Tomorrow I will be waking up very early to go take a bus to Quetzaltenango, or Xela and begin my search for a language school. Hopefully by tomorrow night I will be living with another family…and if they are even half as nice as the Bianchis I will be set.

Random notes: Lorena’s grandparents acted as a bank and exchanged some of my dollars for quetzals. One dollar is worth 7.73 quetzals as of press time. The weather has been great…cool in the morning and night and warm during the day. Xela is supposed to be considerably colder than Guatemala City. Guate is actually a very nice city with lots of hills and trees everywhere. I wouldn’t mind spending some more time here in a month or two. I am trying to speak Spanish as much as I can but my vocab sucks. However, my knowledge of Italian has made it much easier and I feel as if I have already learned a lot in basically one day. I think that in one month I will try to write an entry entirely in Spanish and y’all will have to translate.

Important Info: To call me from the States, dial 011.502.4039.2467. The call is free for me so just try calling on Skype or with a calling card. Hope to hear from everyone soon!

Buenas Noches.

Categories: Uncategorized

Welcome. Bienvenidos.

October 29, 2007 · 2 Comments

Friends, family, and fans:

Welcome to my life. Many of you have been a major part of it up this point, others not so much, but I can assure you all that it is never dull, at least when seen through my eyes. The idea of writing about my experiences, beliefs, and ideas and then sharing these writings with others was fairly unappealing to me for the first 20 or so years. Now, as I set off on what I believe will be a life changing journey, I am more than ready to express everything openly and freely. And I didnt just get to this point over night. The transformation that has allowed me to express my inner emotions and thoughts more openly has happened over the last few years. It gives me great comfort to know that you will be sharing this journey along with me and that even though I will be the only one physically there, the idea that you are reading this right now makes me realize how lucky I am to be surrounded my so many friends. Life truly is best when shared with others. In my first few entries, I will probably play around with the title for my writings and discuss various themes so bear with me but once I get going, I promise that you will be entertained and hopefully enlightened. Right now the title that I am toying with is “Looking for Love”. This doesnt mean that I am looking for a partner, in my case a woman….I think I am trying to reflect the fact that I am searching for my passions while hopefully experiencing the love that floats all around us on a daily basis. I am certain that as I meet new people and experience new lifestyles over the next months and years, I will have the privilege of seeing the many amazing things on this planet. So I will play around with this idea for now but if you have any ideas for an overall title….email me!

I am leaving for Guatemala in mere hours on a 2:40pm EST flight on a one way ticket with one expandable suitcase (thank you Costco) and a small backpack. I have enough clothes to last for around 10 days without wash, 20 if I wear everything twice, more than enough for anything I encounter. I am also bringing my laptop, camera, and Spanish language books that should all prove helpful in the upcoming months.

What am I going to do in Guatemala? Well…I will arrive in Guatemala City and be picked up at the airport by my friend Lorena and then stay at her house for the first night. I met Lorena when I studied abroad in Italy, she is a native Guatemalan, and I was very excited to find out she was on facebook. Facebook is really amazing, seriously, it’s great. So I will probably stay with her one night (maybe two) and then head off to the Western Highlands to a city named Quetzaltenango, aka Xela (pronounced Chela). For more information on Xela, you can check out the well put together website www.xelapages.com that has loads of info about the city. Xela is the second largest city in Guate, many Mayan people live in and around the city, and its elevation is more than 6000 feet above sea level. Should be pretty cool…I will send pics. In Xela, I am going to attend a language school, yet to be determined, where I will have a tutor for about five hours each day and also participate in many other activities and volunteer with the many community organizations in the city. Dont know how long I will be there and dont know where I am living (it will be with a host family) but I do know that I plan on being fluent in Spanish quickly.

Currently I am feeling a nervous anticipation that can only come with traveling. I cannot sleep, my mind is constantly thinking, and I am both extremely excited and extremely nervous at the same time. I do not know what to expect, what I will see when I walk off the plane in a foreign land. Will it be different? Will it be the same? What will the people be life, will I like the food, where will I live, will I be happy? When I spent a semester abroad in Italy, I went in kinda knowing what to expect. I saw pictures of Florence, had eaten pizza and pasta before, and through movies and television had a basic understanding for the Italian culture and lifestyle. When it comes to Central America and especially Guatemala, I know very, very little. I have not really looked at many pictures, not studied the country, and do not understand the culture. I hope to learn about the country and its people along the way and will share with you all of my observations, photos, and experiences.

I now need to try to sleep. For updates on my trip, please go to www.avirichman.com. Yes, I feel very cool that I have my own domain name….very cool. I will be posting as much as I can and will send you all my contact information as soon I have a cell phone, address, etc.

Peace and love,

Avi

Categories: Uncategorized